Searching life partner- meaning of being...
Reaching at your 25th in India has real fun and learning in itself. Many of my friends and even me are facing this transitional phase of life. Socially, we are expected to take up serious roles and personaly we are looking for space to enjoy newly arrived adulthood, our new course, our new projects, our new job. With this there emerge a strain or tension which is multi dimensional. The main tension which is distrubing me and my friends are pressure of marriage. its a cultural tension felt to due various reasons. Familes in India by this expect their children to "get settled". It becomes worse when you start earning by yourself, symbolising your maturity to earn and get some social recognization. But this is a social issue, what I am concern is emotional and personal issues faced by my generation in Indian cultural setup. Most of us faces problems in deciding or choosing life partner(for love and arranged marriage). One side we have our notions about "perfect for me&quo