Missing You ...... WHY ??


Relations!!! The most basic thing which keeps this world as well as Bollywood moving. This week two wonderful or say it awesome movies ignited thoughts in my head. These two movies for me was really heart touching because it was aligned to my thoughts, my experiences and my desires. Basically these two came up with very solicitous issues and dealt with basic problems which we as humans face due imposed relations. These two movies are chillar party and zindagi na milegi dobara, a mainstream commercial cinema with profit intense provided real insight of human nature.
Talking about chillar party under production of Salman Khan (dabangwale :D) and UTV came up with relations between friends , parents and animal in smooth manner. A gang of colony kids fighting to save a stray dog with and without their parents support is beautifully narrated in this story. Similarly three guys in their 30s goes out for road trip and attempts to conquer their fear as if they at 18s ;)  humorously depict how relations in our life plays with contradictions.
Along with these two movies, I came across my besties on IMs and said two very simple and common words – Missing you …. Two words with great emotional importance boosted up my thought process which was further influenced by Chillar Party and Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara. Why we feel more free and easy with our friends rather than others? A bizarre answer came to mind – it’s because friendship is a relationship which is not imposed on us.
Every relations in this world seems to be IMPOSED one including family, state, community etc. we have to emotionally or contractually follow certain norms and rules to manage these relations. We have to put effort to maintain relations even for envy relations where we ‘have to hate’ to some person, community, nation etc.   
These relations, either good or bad, maintained or not maintained plays very wider role in shaping up as human, it keeps flame of humanity blazing in us. These relations has various intensions, it can financial, social, emotional etc. but those relations which do not have any intensions offers more freedom more relaxations and that’s the core reason why we love to spend more time with people whom we call real FRIENDS and such relations are emotionally and socially considered as most pious relation in this universe.
…. Missing u all 

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Anonymous said…
Nice one :D

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